So my mom just told me that I'm hard to get to know. This kind of hurt my feelings although I know this is true but I guess I always described it in a different way, like being shy or whatever. It just got me to thinking if other people think I'm hard to get to know. Then I thought who really cares what other people think but it's basically a fact that everybody cares about what others think, even if they deny it.
That's my thought for the day, gg catch the bus cyaaaaa
i like this thought. my mom is always telling me i should clean more, be less shy, whatever. our parents think they know us SO WELL! but really, they dont...our siblings know us better, so i listen to my brother's advice rather than my mom's.
ReplyDeleteyou shouldn't care what others think, but it's definitely easier said than done. i tell myself i don't care what anyone thinks, but deep down i actually am really sensitive and don't want anyone hurting my personal feelings.
about the 'best friend' thing, don't sweat it. a good friend will stick by you no matter what. some friends i've had for 10 years and we have gotten in a lot of fights and the fights made us stronger...other friends i only had for a couple years and decided "these people are bad for me. i make bad decisions when i'm with them, i'm ditching these people for good."
maybe this friend is someone you need to ditch for good? it doesn't really sound like they deserve to be your friend. a real friend would hear you out no matter how drunk you guys were...i tell myself to "cut my losses" all the time. some things are worth fighting over, and some things just aren't.
you'll find new great friends. if someone is making you feel bad, they aren't really a good friend.
<3 vicki
Thanks chica :)
ReplyDeletethe friend thing was hard for about a week and now I'm over it because I'm definitely better off w/o her. We were best friends for 7 years.. yeah.. 7 YEARS. But we haven't really been the same for about a year now.. I guess I saw it coming I just never thought it would end the way it did.
Oh well :) life goes on!